@inkican @TheBreadmonkey that is fair and understandable. unfortunately my labour history and present situation prevents me from having a balanced perspective because my life is not balanced and it's because of my "traditional" job. so I have to make a huge effort, with the help of my therapist, to balance it myself, but as metaphors go, I am having to do it with just one hand. it's freaking exhausting and draining. so no, no "charitable" and no "balanced" here, I'm afraid.